DJ Elle: Abuse Doesn’t Define Me — Slaying With Strength Does (Season 1, Ep.6)

South African DJ and entrepreneur DJ Elle opens up in this powerful episode of Slay Queen, sharing her journey from heartbreak to healing, and from survival to self-mastery.

Born and raised in Bushbuckridge, Mpumalanga, DJ Elle reveals how she went from working at SCOM to building her own brand focused on empowering women through shapewear. But her rise wasn’t without pain. She speaks candidly about the emotional toll of being in a financially supportive but abusive relationship, and the dangerous cycle of forgiveness that keeps too many women trapped.

DJ Elle challenges the stereotypes around the “slay queen” label, reclaiming it as a symbol of confidence, authenticity, and inner strength — not just designer bags or dating wealthy men. She reminds every woman watching:

“You don’t need luxury to feel valuable — your self-worth is the brand.”

Suppose you or someone you know is navigating a toxic relationship. In that case, this episode offers more than inspiration — it offers clarity, courage, and the reminder that real Slay Queens don’t just survive — they rise.